If you’re anything like me, chances are you see VERY attractive women as you go about your day to day activities.
In fact, at times, I see the most attractive women at places such as the mall, coffee shops, grocery stores, or walking down the street.
For a long time, I would often wonder what it would take to get these women out on dates.
I mean, surely they weren’t all taken, were they?
Well, curiosity eventually got the best of me and I just had to see if approaching women during the day could “work.”
What did I have to lose, I figured.
If I didn’t approach them, it was the same result as them saying no anyways.
Plus, I figured not every woman would say no.
I was certainly right about that, and would I often hear “yes” after I “hit my groove.”
In this article, I want to share with you some of the pros and cons that I experienced from spending close to a year doing my fair share of approaches during the day.
You can meet women you would have never met otherwise
In my opinion, this could very well be the best reason to learn how to approach women during the day.
That stunning blond you see as you are out grabbing groceries practically has you drooling.
She’s GORGEOUS, curves in all the right places, “dressed to the nines,” and she’s EXACTLY your type (physically speaking anyways).
If you knew how to properly approach her and she was single, rather than being a woman you go home and fantasize about, you go on a date with her instead.
Being able to approach women during the day opens up a whole new world of options for you that you would have never had otherwise.
Once you can meet gorgeous women during the day, any other way you meet women will be easy
This is another good reason to learn how to approach women during the day.
Once you can meet gorgeous women during the day and get them on dates, any other way you meet women will be a walk in the park.
You’ll be more confident on dates with women you meet through online dating.
You’ll feel more at ease around women in your immediate social circle.
Also, if you like bars and clubs, you’ll no longer feel the need to get “boozed up” so you can gain your “liquid courage”.
Can lead to extremely high levels of confidence in other areas of your life
This is one thing that most guys don’t realize about being able to successfully approach women during the day.
Being able to successfully approach gorgeous women during the day and get them out on dates is by far the toughest way to meet women (until you get good at it).
There’s no music pumping, you have to keep the conversation going, and sometimes you meet women who are single but who “aren’t in the market” at the time, so it’s your job to persuade them otherwise.
Once you get to the level where you KNOW you can consistently get gorgeous women out on dates, you’ll often wonder what else you’re capable of doing
Perhaps you take the plunge and start an online business?
Perhaps you enroll in that educational program you’ve always wanted to?
Perhaps you finally ace that interview and get your dream job?
Women actually LIKE to be approached during the day
There are tons of women out there who would LOVE to meet you.
Lots of women do not go to the bars.
They don’t have an online dating profile.
They’re not meeting guys through their social circle, or perhaps they don’t even have much of one.
They’re busy professionals and don’t have a lot of time to meet guys.
They would be absolutely delighted to meet you while out grabbing some groceries, shopping at the mall, or crossing the street.
Even if a woman isn’t single/an option, she will generally be delighted you approached her and it will often be the highlight of her day.
You WILL get rejected a lot
Notice how I said you WILL get rejected a lot?
In capital letters at that.
I’m not going to sugarcoat things.
It’s not that you might get rejected, or that you could get rejected.
You most definitely will get rejected, and……. A LOT!
However, AT LEAST 60% of the time, you have no control over the outcome.
Generally speaking, 50% of the women you approach already have a boyfriend or they’re married.
Another 10-20% of them won’t be attracted to you or they’ll just find it too “random.”
That means you could really only have success with, on average, about “3sih” out of 10 women you approach anyways.
Again, this is over time, too.
I would experience CRAZY runs at times.
You could quite easily go out this afternoon and go 0 for 15.
It just happens sometimes.
For guys who do not like rejection, and it really bothers them, this can be tough to swallow.
The law of averages apply, though, and if you approach enough women, you will find women who are interested.
Even though I eventually got a lot of yeses, I always had WAY more “no’s” and the main reason I got so many yeses was purely because of the number of approaches I did.
Volume with approaches is HUGE!
You could get labeled a creep if you do it too often
This will obviously depend on where you live.
If you live in a big city, it’s less likely you’ll be noticed.
When I was first learning how to do this, I was living in a small town, and I truly believe I was being labeled a huge creep/weirdo by various women around.
I had to take a 45 minute drive to get a place of more abundance to “practice”.
I also live in Canada too so it’s FREEZING cold from October-May.
This meant I had to do many of my approaches indoors.
This also meant I had to do them at a mall with about 40 stores in it.
And, since I was showing up there a lot and it wasn’t always that busy, people definitely noticed me.
I actually approached 4 different women that all worked at the same La Senza store over a 2 month period (I know, right).
You’ll look weird showing up a mall all the time (more so if it’s small) and NOT ACTUALLY shopping.
Here I was going in and out of stores and not actually buying anything.
Trust me, people notice.
You know absolutely nothing about her
This can be both a good and bad thing.
It can be good as it can be exciting to get to know her better.
However, it can also be a bad thing because she may be the type of woman you DO NOT want to meet AT ALL!
I mean, you can somewhat weed out the types of women you don’t want to meet by the way they’re dressed and carrying themselves, but one never knows for sure.
I can think a perfect example of this one day.
It was a hot summer day and I just got back from the gym.
I decided to go for a walk down the street to finish off my workout.
Anyhow, I see this cute brunette walking by.
I approached her, chatted with her for a few minutes, and then grabbed her number.
I tried to set something up with her that night but she had to work.
Anyways, she was a big texter and texted me quite a bit the next day.
I come to find out she works at a fast food joint, but the real shocker was the pictures she sent me.
She sent me a couple pics of her kissing her pet rats.
Needless to say, I did not meet up with her.
Again, this girl was cute, but was NOT the type of woman I wanted to meet at all.
It can be VERY time consuming
There’s really no guarantees as to how things will play out.
As I said, generally speaking, only about 30% of women you see out and about COULD be an option to begin with.
If you’re not in a very densely populated area, it may be hard to find enough women to approach that are in the “could be an option” bracket.
If you’re only able to approach a handful of women in a certain amount of time, it may not be the greatest use of your time and you may be better off meeting women at the bar, social circles, or through online dating.
I truly believe every guy should learn how to approach women during the day.
When you can successfully do this, you’re more or less “mastered” meeting women and you’ll never have to worry about getting a date or a relationship for the rest of your life.
Yes, there will still be ups and down, but this often like the “final step.”
Like I said, once you can do this any other way you meet women will be easy.
So, next time you see a beautiful woman that really catches your eye…
GO FOR IT!
You never know what could happen 😉